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Jing's Magazine(August 16, 2001)

Finally there are two more subscribers. Let me see... There are 17 subscribers now. Thanks for subscribing my magazine when you just browsed my web site as a passerby.

I found that this newsletter system doesn't run well now. It didn't send my newsletter to you right away. This is why later I sent it to you like an E-mail. You have got my last newsletter twice because the last time was sent by the newsletter web site by itself but was delayed for several days. I am sorry for the inconvenience but at least I hope you can understand it. By the way, I also notice that I am unable to send my newsletter to the Email box from China.com. I don't know why. I will keep trying but it's better to change another E-mail address to subscribe my newsletter.

1. I think I will still love you so fifty years later.
~ However, I have never loved you.
2. Is loving you a good reason?
~ No, it isn't.
3. I want to become older and older slowly with you.
~ But I don't want.
4. Is it funny? It's quite strange without you.
~ It is not funny, it's horrible.
5. I am with you because I just don't want to give others a change.
~ Come on, it depends on me whether I will give another a change or not.
6. I think in the future I will go to the market with you everyday.
~ Sorry, I am busy.
7. Only you can understand my world.
~ But you don't know my world at all.
8. I know the love needs the freedom to be happy, but I prefer to stay with you.
~ No, thanks, I cherish the freedom and happiness.
9. I don't know when I learnt to be dependent.
~ This is a bad habit, you have to get rid of it.
10. I know I can't be without you, so I will cherish you much more.
~ It's just fine to cherish your memory, I will be happier without you.
11. Everyday... I miss you very much.
~ Just miss me, but don't take action.
12. It will be upset to have the Christmas alone.
~ Go home and celebrate it with your family, I am always busy to you.
13. My heart always beats to you.
~ Please go to see the doctor and check your heart, the heart disease is one of the killers.
14. I will make delicious food for you.
~ I don't want to hurt you, but your cooking is very bad.
15. I already surrender at discretion to you, just sign the love contract.
~ The contract will effect if both of us agree to it, but I refuse.
16. If I can't have you in my life, I will hate myself.
~ Don't worry, three days later you will forget me.
17. You decide whether my future is colorful or not.
~ You should decide your own future, please don't pass the buck to me.
18. You are the most beautiful girl all over the world in my eyes, if you still complain about it, I will be unhappy:)
~ Frankly, your opinion means nothing to me, I don't care whether you are angry or not.
19. Let me love your forever?
~ So what if I don't allow?
20. I can't think out a reason to live except for loving you.
~ I can't help you.
21. Due to you, I know there is a mood called attaching, and there is a feeling called love.
~ I hope you will also know the refusal and reluctance.
22. Don't ask me how deep my love to you, I can't say it. I just know you become a habit to me. Everyday I can without eating and sleeping, but I can't stop missing you...
~ The habit can change, you will get used to eat and sleep but don't think of me.
23. When I see your smile, suddenly I realize that I am the most happiest person in the world.
~ If you will never show up in front of me, I will be the most happiest person in the world.
24. If it's possible, I am willing to spend every second in my life to stay with you.
~ No "if" and definitely it is impossible.
25. I think I can be strong without you, but finally I know I can't...
~ Don't give up, keep trying and you can.
26. The coffee is lonely without a cup, and I am lonely without you.
~ Then just use bowl.
27. Everytime when I am upset, I remember your smile and encouragement, it makes me to face the difficulties, thank you!
~ You are welcome, I treat every friend like this, and I am in a good mood only.
28. Who said your cooking is bad? I will go home to have dinner everyday.
~ I will tell your mother and you have to tell her in person that she should cook better when you go to see your family.
29. You are someone who will always support me in my most difficult time.
~ Actually I am not, and I am too busy to do so.

One day a farmer's donkey fell down a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally he decided the animal was old and the well needed to be covered up anyway. It just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey, so he invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed shovels and began to shovel dirt into the well.
At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement, he quieted down. A few shovel loads later the farmer finally looked down the well and was astonished at what he saw.
With every shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing: He would shake it off and take a step up. As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up.
Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up and trotted away.

Moral: Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest well just by not stopping; never give up! Just shake it off and step up.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
Free your heart from hatred.
Free your mind from worries.
Live simple.
Give more.
Expect less.

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